I saw a lot of posts in the infertility tag about how people who are able to get pregnant (and stay pregnant) easily or accidentally don’t really appreciate their babies as much as people who have to ttc for a long time, pay for fertility treatments, or suffer miscarriages.

I didn’t really agree with that line of thought back then, and I very strongly disagree with that line of thought now.

Let me tell you, I wanted to repeatedly slam my head into a wall today. I went through 3 miscarriages, fertility treatments, and paid a ton of money for IVF to get my beloved twins. Today I just wanted them to shut the fuck up and take a nap.

How you get your babies doesn’t matter. THEY WILL BREAK YOU.